They Sicken of the Calm, Who Knew the Storm

Dorothy Parker? Apocryphal?

Dear Quote Investigator: If you experience a wild and tumultuous love affair then you will probably become bored with an episode of staid affection. The famous wit Dorothy Parker wrote a poem on this topic containing the following elegant line:

They sicken of the calm, who knew the storm.

Sometimes reference works present this quotation with the word “know” instead of “knew”. Would you please tell me which word is correct? Also, what is the name of this poem?

Quote Investigator: In 1928 Dorothy Parker published the poetry collection “Sunset Gun”. The following four lines are from her fourteen line poem titled “Fair Weather”. Boldface added to excerpts by QI:[ref] 1941 (Copyright 1928), Sunset Gun: Poems by Dorothy Parker, Poem: Fair Weather, Quote Page 50, The Sun Dial Press, Garden City, New York. (Verified with scans) [/ref]

I have a need of wilder, cruder waves;
They sicken of the calm, who knew the storm.

So let a love beat over me again,
Loosing its million desperate breakers wide;

Below are additional selected citations in chronological order.

In January 1928 the poem “Fair Weather” appeared in newspapers such as “The News and Observer” of Raleigh, North Carolina.[ref] 1928 January 25, The News and Observer, Fair Weather, Quote Page 6, Column 1, Raleigh, North Carolina. (Newspapers_com) [/ref] The punctuation of the verse was sometimes slightly altered.

Parker’s work was also reprinted in the 1928 collection “The American Scrap Book: The Year’s Golden Harvest of Thought and Achievement”.[ref] 1928, The American Scrap Book: The Year’s Golden Harvest of Thought and Achievement, Poem: Fair Weather, Start page 150, Quote Page 150, Wm. H. Wise & Company, New York. (Verified with scans) [/ref]

In 1970 a crucial line from the poem appeared in “The International Thesaurus of Quotations”. Oddly, the word “knew” was changed to “know”.[ref] 1970, The International Thesaurus of Quotations, Compiled by Rhoda Thomas Tripp, Topic: Adventure, Quote Page 9, Thomas Y. Crowell, New York. (Verified with scans) [/ref]

They sicken of the calm, who know the storm.
DOROTHY Parker, “Fair Weather,” Sunset Gun (1928).

In 1986 “The Fitzhenry & Whiteside Book of Quotations” also printed the altered quotation:[ref] 1986, The Fitzhenry & Whiteside Book of Quotations, Revised and Enlarged, Edited by Robert I. Fitzhenry, Topic: Peace, Quote Page 270, Fitzhenry & Whiteside Limited, Toronto. (Verified on paper)[/ref]

They sicken of the calm who know the storm. Dorothy Parker

In conclusion, Dorothy Parker deserves credit for the 1928 poem “Fair Weather” which contains a metaphorical line about preferring stormy weather to calm weather. The line employed the word “knew”. By 1970 some quotation references were presenting an altered line with the word “know”.

Image Notes: Painting titled “Storm” by Ivan Aivazovsky circa 1861; image accessed via Wikiart.org. Image has been cropped and resized.